The
Aadi month is part of Hindu Ceremonies,
invoking self joy in the for the Indian female community.
The Aadi month is not a big
hoo hah in Penang or Malaysia.
It probes me to ask Aunty Kamachi more of the reason of Aadi month. As preparation
for Uvaraani and Jivan wedding is underway, (read about the
engagement ceremony here).
We were not able to perform other ceremonies as this month July 15th until
August 22nd is the month. We did however performed one ceremony for
her before the start of the Hindu ceremonies, Aadi Festival,
(her so called
first menstruation ceremony). This Hindu ceremony in Penang is performed
or remembered by a few devotees and some temples. Other than that, it is a quiet affair.
What is Aadi month?
Malaysian Aadi Festival is celebrated on the fourth month of the Indian calendar.
Aadi is considered a sacred month for the Traditional Southern Indians.
Two important things which are significant to married Indian ladies. They would make
special effort to go to the temple for their Tuesday prayers.
Mothers will purchase gold ornaments for adding to their daughter "thali".
Then it is time to return home to the mother's house to perform this ceremony.
Usually for first three years, mother invite their married daughter home to
perform this ceremony. the mothers will help them have their "thali" thread
change.
It is a sacred ceremony as "thali" must not be dropped or fallen during the
ceremony. As the mother untied the knots (tied during the marriage rite), the
daughter would hold the "thali" and ease it out of the yellow turmeric thread.
Then a new thread is given and "thali" is fasten back with new gold coins that
mum purchased.
For the newly married daughter, in the month of Aadi, she must stay
in the mother house for a month. It is considered inauspicious for a Tamil
family to have the first child (especially if it is to be a boy).
Aadi Month - Taboo month for festivals
Aadi Month: Mulaipari in India. Courtesy of Saravanam, Singapore
Despite all these important days, the month of Aadi is considered an
inauspicious month for occasions like weddings, housewarming ceremonies etc.
The other Aadi Festival is the worshipping of Goddess Sakti Devi. Goddess Sakti Devi,
it was told came into this world to bless the people. People therefore worship her in order
to secure happiness not only for themselves but also for their loved ones. Kolams are drawn
and mango leaves are change to welcome her. If the festival falls on a Friday, the occasion
is considered to be highly auspicious, and the people worship the goddess in a more special way.
I am quite happy with Aunty Kamachi's version. Another version I got from
Saravanan from India, tells us his sweet memories of women during the month of Aadi.
In a Indian India Aadi month, there is a festival that celebrate Mulaipari.
I love this traditional Indian practices. Mulaipari was never practiced in Penang
or Malaysia. Saravanam now lives in Singapore.
Aadi Reviews
My friend Gawain reviewed this Hindu ceremony and to me, it is
totally hilarious and a brilliant piece of art! To Gawain, I can't stop laughing!
I had a little epiphany of this last week in Penang, when, during my trip to the
top of Strawberry Hill, I stumbled upon an Indian ceremony called Aadi month
at the Lord Murgan temple there.
Adi is a month of daily temple events culminating in a whole day orgy of ritual –
which this year fell on July 22. Tamils are enthusiastic celebrants of Adi (and
everything else in the Tamil religious calendar); in fact, they may be the most
religious people in India, which is the most religious country on the
planet; which would make them the most religious people on earth. They are also
the one other Asian people (other than the Balinese) whose performance art
(in their case, classical music known as
“Carnatic”
) is in very good shape, by which I mean that it is still the dominant cultural
form among the Tamils: the stuff everyone would rather do (or watch). (Who cares
for Bollywood when you can… beat the
mridangam?)
And while somebody might say: “here is another proof that religion maintains the
artistic practice: all carnatic music is devotional in nature”, the impression I
got at the Adi celebration was the precise opposite.
I was there on June 19th, a Thursday, and a day of only a minor celebration; yet, a
goodly crowd of Tamils made their way to the top of the hill for it. How devout, you
might say. But watch these people – these doctors, lawyers and engineers.
They arrive in their work-a-day clothes in their cars and motorcycles, and —
and at once they strip all those clothes, shoes, and watches, all that uniform
of this dull, purposeful life, this drab 20th century industrial world, and they
cast it aside impatiently; they bare their huge hairy chests, they wrap resplendent,
gold trimmer lungis around their fat bellies, string the sacred Brahmin thread across the chests,
and smear the three white Shiva bars across their foreheads, and, before your eyes.
They transform themselves into something different, a different persona altogether:
potent priests, powerful warriors of God, men of another time and another place, another,
ancient, heroic world. Men who are in the right to get up to anything they bloody please.
And they do: for they then wheel out a huge golden erect penis (politely called lingam,
the symbol of the great god, Shiva, and more generally, of all divine powers) and hoist it
around the temple, to the blaring of the
nadaswaram and the pounding of the mridangam.
Watch a little clip here:
Stopping at each corner, they plant the thing proudly upright, and then proceed to wash
it in rivers of holy water and clarified butter, splashing left and right, while making
a huge racket with every percussion instrument they can lay their hands on and chanting
at the top of their rasping voices.
Then the train proceeds to the front of the temple, where the head pundit (imported on
a special pundit visa from India) performs an exuberant, exhibitionist fire sacrifice,
feeding the huge crackling flame with gobs of delicious smelling butter and crackling
spices and enveloping the whole courtyard in a glorious clouds of pungent smoke, while
his sidekicks dress Lord Murugan in endless garlands of flowers.
And then the celebration moves inside, where, before the main idol, they play
raucous cat music is with drums, gongs, trumpets, bells and – in masterfully timed
crescendi – they blow the conchs – discordant, blaring sound, strange, moving, and
— absolutely hilarious.
Shopping Spree during Aadi month
Aadi Month Shopping - Sarees and Jubahs
Well, is it a surprise that we would shop too? No, it is happy
days when it comes to shopping for Indian attire.
But believe me, I will not attempt it on my own. You will find streets and road
of Sarees, Ornaments shops in Little India. Little India is one of the best area
to come for your dry indian sundries too.
Curry powders, all kind of dhalls, chick pea and ghee are all here. For
our sarees, one of the few we always shop is at Beach Street called The Chennai
Potty's. As daughter tend to come home during this month, Dad and Mum would then
take her shopping to stop her missing her husband.
The Chennai Potty's has three shops in Malaysia. The 65 Beach
Street shop is one my family and relative frequents the most. Telephone number : 04-2508181.
As you enter colorful saree welcomes you and it is spacious for you to grace all the lovely
saree hanging by the side of the counters. We love to window shop a few shops before buying.
The prices can vary from shop to shop. And what I like about The Chennai Pottys's is that you
don't have to bargain a lot.Discounts are given during festive season and more when you produce
these coupons from here.
Aadi Month: Shopping at The Chennai Potty's
Compliments from
My Island Penang
Discount Coupon
(cut this slip with picture out for shopping at
Chennai Potty's )
So cut the coupons and enjoy shopping for your indian attire
while in Penang. Beside Aadi month, other fantastic offers is on
going in this shop. Mani Kandan and Ashok Raj will help you around the three
stories shops. Women sarees are at the bottom, I got some very lovely jubah for
my son and Chandra at 2 level in the men's wear. I am not sure about the third
level as our pockets got tight after getting 5 sarees and 4 jubahs. All for less
than RM400. A real bargain. Well, it happen to be Aadi month but I got them
to extend this offer to my readers, so feel free to shop and give them the coupons.
Love
these decorative bangles at Rathi's shop
Aadi Month Shopping - Bangles and Costume Jewelries
Aadi
Month: Shopping at Rathi
To compliment wearing saree, we will purchase gold or costume ornaments.
One such Bangle ornaments shop is Rath, situated at 27, Market Street.
Telephone number :04-2632345. This guy Abas, an employee is so warm showing
and letting us try out most bangles we asked.
It is "WOW" to be in this ornament shops. From tattoo stickers for all
parts of your body, wigs, bangles glass and plastic ones. I truly enjoy the
experience of wearing most he kindly wore for us.
I know it is wicked of me, I got him to offer some discount for you, gals.
It was not easy as this shop already sells their wares at prices you wont find
in any other shops.
I give you an example. The only item I couldn't get a discount is their bangle,
plastic or glass types. Most shops would be selling around RM40 together with settings.
We got ours for less then RM25 for both hands.
Plastic and Glass bangles at Rathi
Compliments from
My Island Penang
Discount Coupon
(cut this slip with picture for shopping at Rathi )
Sorry, no further discount on bangles of any sorts
So you can get 30% discount for all other items except
bangles as it is already very very cheap! Any items to dress you to be an
Indian gal can be found here. So shop to your heart's content. It is more
then worth to get your bangles here.
Gawain
writes a twice-weekly essay on literature, classical arts, aesthetics, and the aesthetic experience
East and West. Gawain, masquerading as a Mittel-European orient list, 40-ish, single, balding,
and retired, who lives in Thailand about 4 months of the year and travels the rest of the time
in search of classical arts and artists.
When girls attain puberty, the day and the time are marked by her mother.
The first bath on that day is given by her " Thai Mama" or maternal Uncle.
Then she is kept in isolation for few days, and fed with nutritional food
such as gingerly oil, "Kali" or pasty pudding made out of black gram, and
sesame seeds mixed with jiggery. The puberty is celebrated with a feast on
the seventh day by the Tamils.
It's a joyous occasion for the family. During earlier days, the girls
were not allowed to see any males during their isolation period. They were
kept indoors. The particular girl is given special care during this period.
Delicious Malaysian coconut rice, served
with anchovy hot sambal tumis sauce, fried anchovies, fried peanuts, sliced
cucumber or tomato, and hard-boiled egg.